Why I don't cite statistics.

In case anyone is wondering where my statistics to back up my claims are, let me first say that I am writing this as an opinion blog.

But the real reason for that is that the political and sociological climate right now is one of what you feel, what you believe, and not necessarily one that is searching for truth. I could cite the dozens of relevant, double-blind studies I have read that formed many of my opinions, but someone who doesn't want to understand what I'm saying because they find inner satisfaction from their opposing point of view will find a way to undermine the statistic- not to mention that there are many studies that aren't definitive, so many people are skeptical of them anyway (myself included!).

So instead, I'm trying to reach people through the feelings that people are so wont to heed nowadays, by speaking to your gut feelings with no more than reason.

(Also, I too many hyperlinks are distracting when you're trying to read something- even just for having to stop to decide whether or not to click.)

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